Code for data analysis

My project is about whether behaviors are associated with involuntary singlehood, moderated by big 5 personality traits. So basically the outcome variable is relationship status (single unhappily, single by preference, stable partnership) and trying to look at whether involuntary singlehood is predicted by flirting behaviors (flirting skills, capacity to perceive signals of interests, mating effort) moderated by big 5 personality traits (extraversion, openness, agreeableness). We already have the data and need to analyze it but are struggling with developing the tables and models in R. Were supposed to test each personality to each flirting behavior and to look at it through multinomial logistic regression too. Tried both in R and SPSS, and is very confused. So we're looking for someone to help us with this, so we can start data analysis and findings.